What people think of you...

How many of us are still the people we were 2 or 3 years ago? hmmmm...tough to think long lost memories come back isn't it? your junior college,you were like a free bird out in the world ready to meet many more..you meet people from various backgrounds and mentalities..


As the months pass by you develop a wonderful relationship with those ppl..yes that is indeed friendship..there is nothing more valuable than that during this phase of your life..then comes a guy/girl who is unbelievingly charming! you can't get your eyes off him/her..yup your crush!! ok then starts all the attention seeking business..girls you have to have look your best everyday..i don't know how many must have tortured their parents for new outfit every month...guys have to be "cool" iam not quite sure what tht means but i take a wild guess...maybe they think its their gel ( set wet...very very ....) or their pants which just refuse to stay where they are supposed to stay..i suppose you get the point.. ;) trust me when i was in college i was in constant fear that one of my friend's pants would just drop smday and then what follows does not need any explanation!

Now look back at the first day of your college how many of you are still friends with the ppl you were at that time?not just for the sake of friendship but really the way you were before?? is it so easy for a person to come into your life and manipulate you the way he/she likes?

c'mon guys...don't let that happen!! don't give upon long years of friendship just because some person you are attracted to does not approve of your friend!you got to put your foot down!

don't put the key to your happiness in someone else's pocket....you don't want to be a mere puppet in "your life" do you?

"Mom Dad i want to be a........."

All of us have said that line at least a dozen times till date.Its funny how with each passing year,the blank would be filled with a new word...the favourite one was the doctor i still don't know why?!Very few of us actually manage to do what they really want to do.. WHY? We are bright students and ambitious youngsters who have had the privilege of having everything at our reach..then why the confusion?

There are only few options that we consider..now that may be out of choice or maybe out of obligation that depends..I met so many people who are brilliant at photography,art and so many more unusual things but....they do not pursue it because there is no scope!...well by that they mean they will not have enough money to live a luxurious life ...agreed it is indeed true but what about satisfaction?it is lost!

They are ready to give up their passion just to live conveniently and happily..that is in fact of no use when you work like a machine for hours and come home to your family and have no time to listen to your little one's first day at school,or just have a simple dinner with your parents!

There is nothing wrong to look for a secure job that gives you everything..eating out at fancy restaurants,going for a vacation,but friends look deeper,think deeper,ask yourself is that all you want???